Death is actually a pretty permanent state, just in case you
have not noticed. That probably sounds profoundly silly, but there is something
about the way we think about death that does not capture the essence of “forever” in our experience. Sometimes over the past year I felt like a vacuum
cleaner entered my soul and emptied it of any sense of beauty or love.
Everyone told me that nature abhors a void and the time
would fill the emptiness. But nature and time seemed to be busy elsewhere.
It was an old friend who told me that I need to find my Mojo and, as the Mad Hatter said to Alice, my “muchness.” He told me his memory of me with a pack on my back, looking over my shoulder at him saying “come on, we can do this” even though we both knew I was afraid. He remembered my wildness, even if I did not.
It was an old friend who told me that I need to find my Mojo and, as the Mad Hatter said to Alice, my “muchness.” He told me his memory of me with a pack on my back, looking over my shoulder at him saying “come on, we can do this” even though we both knew I was afraid. He remembered my wildness, even if I did not.
That sounded amazing, and challenging, and terrifying. But
honesty, emptiness was getting boring, and filling me with the fear that I
would never be full of love and laughter and light and wonder. I had been
feeling like a ship at sea with no navigational information. All I could do was
steer away from the danger buoys and warning lights. It seemed like a safe and
perhaps even wise choice. But I was headed nowhere and steering based on my
fears.
So I changed my sailing plan, and steered towards the
warnings and lights and all that I feared. I breathed in the wind and danced to
the rhythm of the waves, and followed my fears where ever they led. My soul
began to fill with wonder and desire and passion and laughter. My adventures
started so very small, but quickly expanded. My soul not only filled, but it
also expanded, as I sailed into the adventure and away from the safety of the
shore.
Amazingly, I discovered a new type of navigational tool…scaring
myself wild. I highly recommend it, and would love hear about your adventures.